Do You See Life in Monochrome or in Color?

Have you seen the video of the guy with colorblindness who receives a life changing birthday gift from his parents?  It is a pair of EnChroma Colorblindness Glasses invented by glass scientist Don McPherson.  He created them to help surgeons distinguish tissues and for eye protection against lasers.  Later, he accidentally discovered they gave people with colorblindness the ability to see life in color.

In the video, the moment the man places the glasses over his colorblind eyes, he immediately struggles to find the words to describe what he is seeing for the first time in his life (except for a few choice expletives which you can overlook).  Then this big tough guy starts shaking and crying at the joy and wonder of it all.  His life has just been changed forever.

We see this same response at GLI when we share in our counseling and teaching that God has provided new spiritual glasses called the New Covenant.  Many of them also see life in color for the first time.  When they do, they may cry, shake, laugh, shake their heads, and more.

Sadly, the majority of Christians have never experienced the joy of living from the New Covenant Gospel.  So, unfortunately they only see their Christianity in monochrome which they think is normal. That’s because most of their Christian friends do too.  This leaves their view of God, themselves, others, and how life works dim at best and very dark at worst.

Want to put on your New Covenant Glasses?  Here they are:

 1.  You have Jesus in you, not just on His throne in heaven.

However, you need a revelation from God so you can go beyond this fact of Him in you, to living by faith in Christ in you.  See Ephesians 3:14-21.  You are wearing these glasses if you enjoy fellowship with Christ in you and are asking Him to live His life through you?

2.  You are under grace, not the 10 Commandments.

When you wear these glasses, you realize you have two things which are much better.  You have Jesus in you to live through you in the power of the Spirit. (Romans 7:4)  And, you have the law written on your heart, i.e. you have a perfect identity in Christ according to Hebrews 10:16-17. 

3.  You are a saint, not a sinner.

       When you wear these glasses, though you sin, you still see yourself as a saint, not a sinner.  Romans 5:19 makes this incredibly easy to see in full color. 

4.  You are already forgiven for all sins, not forgiven one by one. 

       When you wear these glasses, you understand you are already forgiven before you ever sin according to Colossians 2:13 and Ephesians 1:7. 

5.  God accepts you unconditionally, not just because He is kind. 
        

       Wearing these glasses helps you see that God has placed His righteousness in your identity in Christ.  This has made you unconditionally acceptable to God. You can’t mess it up! See 2 Corinthians 5:17&21.

God wants you to see in full color!  And, so do we at GLI. 

We can help you put on these glasses just by attending a Grace Life Conference.  The next one is September 11-12 and you can attend in person or virtually.  Sign up on our website at www.GraceLifeInternational.com.  Pastors and spouses come free.

Believe it! It's the Gospel.

Live Free In Christ,

Mark Maulding, President and Founder

www.GraceLifeInternational.com All Content Copyright © 2015 Mark Maulding but feel free to pass it on!

God's Cure for a Shame-based Identity

Have you ever heard that little voice in your head saying "There must be something wrong with me."  It usually speaks to us after a mistake, a sin, or a rejection from someone.  It's the lying voice of the enemy of course, but it sounds a whole lot like our own.  John 8:44c says about Satan, Whenever he speaks a lie, he speaks from his own nature, for he is a liar and the father of lies.

That thought, that voice, that accusation is the spirit of shame.  It's not the same as being ashamed of something I did.  This is different because this is about who I am.  This kind of shame is a gnawing feeling, deep down that says "I am defective."

It's very closely related to condemnation. Condemnation whispers to us that because of what we did, we are messed up in the core of who we are.  When we sin, the Holy Spirit points out to us that we didn't live like who we are in Christ.  On the other hand, condemnation is relentless in trying to convince us that our identity is fatally flawed. It leads us away from the truth of our identity in Christ to an identity defined by failure.  If we listen to it long enough, it will eventually tell us that we are probably not a Christian at all!

That is why we all love Romans 8:1: There is therefore now no condemnation for those who are in Christ Jesus.  It's fascinating that this verse follows a chapter in which the Apostle Paul shared with us how much sin defeated him, even though he hated doing it every single time!  Now that's encouraging.

We are not under condemnation because God crucified our shame-based identity in Adam which genuinely was defective and messed up.  Then He buried it in the grave forever with Jesus according to Romans 6:6. Knowing this that our old self was crucified that we should no longer be slaves to sin.  Then He resurrected us as new creations, with a grace-based identity in Christ. God says we are now perfect according to Hebrews 10:14. For by one offering He has perfected for all time those who are sanctified.

No way does this mean we will live sinless lives.  It does mean that our sin, mistakes, upbringing, abuse, or anything else cannot define us.

Do you operate from a shame-based identity because of your past? 

Do you operate from a shame-based identity because of your family? 

Do you operate from a shame-based identity because of that sin you can't stop doing?

Do you operate from a shame-based identity because you are divorced?

Do you operate from a shame-based identity because (you fill in the blank)?

God has crucified your shame-based identity and exchanged it for a grace-based identity in Christ.  Galatians 2:20 speaks to this, I have been crucified with Christ; and it is no longer I who live, but Christ lives in me; and the life which I now life in the flesh I live by faith in the Son of God, who loved me and gave Himself up for me.

Why don't you pray right now and tell God that you are choosing to believe that your shame-based identity died on the cross with Jesus and you are now embracing your grace-based identity. Therefore if anyone is in Christ he is a new creation; the old things passed away; behold, new things have come.  (2nd Corinthians 5:17)

And as always, we are here to help in person or virtually.  Why don't you at least have a consultation with us?  Life is way too short to live under the oppression of a shame-based identity.

Believe it! It's the Gospel.

Live Free In Christ,

Mark Maulding, President and Founder

www.GraceLifeInternational.com All Content Copyright © 2015 Mark Maulding but feel free to pass it on!

How to Create a Personal Mission Statement

We often read the mission statements of businesses and churches.  They help us understand their purpose and why they do what they do.  For example, the mission statement of Chick-fil-A is "To glorify God by being a faithful steward of all that is entrusted to us. To have a positive influence on all who come in contact with Chick-fil-A."  To be honest, I thought their mission statement was to make the most awesome chicken sandwich for me to eat once a month!

 

At Grace Life International, we go over our mission every time we meet together as a staff and in our leadership meetings.  Our mission is "To glorify God by sharing Jesus Christ and both sides of His cross so that people may experience intimacy with God and life transformation."  Simply said, we are all about "Sharing the Gospel with Christians".  Most of our staff could recite this in their sleep and they believe it and live it.

 

I also believe that God has a personal mission for individuals, not just organizations. How about you?  Have you ever considered that God created you with a personal mission to fulfill during your sojourn of this short life on terra firma?  He did. How do I know?  Because Ephesians 2:10 tells us about this divine design. For we are God's masterpiece. He has created us anew in Christ Jesus, so we can do the good things He planned for us long ago.  (NLT)  He came to live in you so He could love you and live through you to fulfill His purpose for your life.

 

When we are living out the purpose for which He created us, He is glorified, others are blessed and we are fulfilled.  That purpose is not exactly the same for everyone.  For example, God gave the Apostle Peter the mission to take the Gospel to the Jews but He gave to Paul the mission of taking the Gospel to the Gentiles.  For the same God who worked through Peter as the apostle to the Jews also worked through me as the apostle to the Gentiles.

Galatians 2:8

 

Are you personally interested in discovering your God-given mission for your own life?  Let me see if I can help you get there.

 

Let's define the idea.  A personal mission statement is a clear concise statement as to how Jesus desires to live through you to fulfill your God-given purpose.  It gives you "tracks" to guide the direction of your life. It may be something you do for a job or not.

 

Prayerfully ask God to show you the answers to these questions: 

1. What activities do I find myself drawn to over and over?  It could be feeding the poor, teaching, painting, accounting, technology, health, evangelism, counseling, etc.
2. What am I passionate about as far as what motivates me in life?  It could be more than one thing but one will rise above the others.
3. What are my governing values that guide my life?
4. What experiences have I had in my life?
5. What are my talents?
6. What are my spiritual gifts that I find myself enjoying the most?
7. What is my personality hardwiring?  Take the DISC profile for free online by searching for it.
8. What are my roles and responsibilities?
9.  If money weren't an issue, what would I spend the rest of my life doing?  Yea, I know, you may be thinking I'd go to a tropical island and swim in the ocean every day!  That's not quite what I mean, of course!
10. What are my goals in life? 

(If you need help, go to PLACE Ministries and for a mere $10, you can get a very thorough assessment of all of these.)

 

After you have answered these questions the best you can, not perfectly, prayerfully read them over a few times and then work on your personal mission statement.

 

Here are a couple of examples:

 

To glorify God by trusting Him to live through me to produce the best paintings I can so that I can show His creativity.

 

To glorify God by relying on Him to live through me to do a good job at my work so I can help the company succeed while making sure I provide for my family not only financially, but by time and leadership.

 

To glorify God by growing in my understanding, living, and communicating the New Covenant in all areas of my life, including my family, my work, my money, my friendships and my ministry.

 

I hope you will decide now that you are going to set aside some time this week to work on this.  It will help you more than you may know. 

  

Believe it! It's the Gospel.

Live Free In Christ,

Mark Maulding, President and Founder

www.GraceLifeInternational.com All Content Copyright © 2015 Mark Maulding but feel free to pass it on!

Does Suffering Turn You Away From Jesus or Toward Jesus?

Several years ago, a young beloved police officer was gunned down in our city causing a flood of tears for many, especially his wife.  As anyone would, she deeply grieved over his death and her loss of him. She believed it was the worst thing that could ever happen to her as a young bride.  Soon, anger towards God began to swell in her soul. After the funeral, she set up a meeting with her pastor.

Through angry tears, she told him that she could no longer believe in Jesus because if He would let her husband be taken from her, then she wanted nothing to do with Him.  The pastor lovingly tried to convince her to change her mind but she was immovable.  She walked away from her faith in Jesus never to return.

In another story, a lady came to GLI to receive personal counseling for years of debilitating depression and discouragement.  God worked through the counselor to share with her the freedom found in the Gospel for Christians.  As she began to understand the overwhelming love of God for her, her years of depression and discouragement were replaced with great joy. 

Shortly afterwards, her husband also died without warning.  She was heartbroken, full of grief and anger towards God.  But her story ends very differently.  Because she understood that nothing could separate her from God’s amazing love for her, she released her anger and turned to Jesus in her for comfort and solace. 

The Apostle Paul wrote, For I am convinced that neither death nor life, neither angels nor demons, neither the present nor the future, nor any powers,  neither height nor depth, nor anything else in all creation, will be able to separate us from the love of God that is in Christ Jesus our Lord.  Romans 8:38-39.

King David wrote that God’s love was better than anything in his life after his son, Absalom, had chased him out of the palace with vicious threats to murder him. Because your love is better than life, my lips will glorify you. I will praise you as long as I live, and in your name I will lift up my hands.  Psalms 63:3-4

When you truly begin to understand how much God loves you, no matter what comes at you in life, you eventually will turn toward a deeper trust and intimacy with Jesus rather than away from Him.  It may take some time for you to get there, but you will get there.

Are you convinced that God loves you no matter what happens?  Or do you look at good or bad circumstances as indicators of whether God loves you?  The first leads to freedom.  The latter leads to bondage.

I urge you to make a decision today, no matter how you feel or what life is throwing at you, that God loves you no matter what.  If you need help getting there call us at 704-522-9026 for a live or Skype consultation.  God does not want you to live feeling unloved by him for one more minute!  

Believe it! It's the Gospel.

Live Free In Christ,

Mark Maulding, President and Founder

www.GraceLifeInternational.com All Content Copyright © 2015 Mark Maulding but feel free to pass it on!

The New Testament Begins in Acts not Matthew

If you are like I used to be, you may be greatly confused when you read the Gospels.  They seem to contradict other New Testament Scripture.  Most of our confusion is because we think these teachings are part of the New Covenant (Testament).  However most of them are not.  The New Testament starts in Acts, not Matthew.  How do we know that?

When we are reading, we need to ask ourselves a question.  “Has Jesus died yet when this was written?”  If not, it’s Old Covenant, in most cases.  If He has died, it’s New Covenant writing.

When Jesus came to the earth, He came directly to the Jews who were still under the Old Covenant relationship with God. Want to get the gist of the Old Covenant?  Deuteronomy 28 spells it out very clearly.  If Israel obeyed God’s laws, there were12 verses of blessings He would give them.  (See 1-14)  If Israel disobeyed God’s laws, there were 52 verses of curses He would give them. (See 15-68)

Do you want to live in that kind of relationship with God?  I don’t!  Unfortunately, many Christians believe that is still how God treats them though we are under the New Covenant of grace.  So, Christianity is a burden instead of a blessing.

A lot of what Jesus taught was Old Covenant teaching to the Jews of His day.  And when He taught them, He was raising the bar of how perfect they needed to be accepted and blessed by God. Here are some examples: 

Unless you are more righteous than the strictest religious leaders in Jesus’s day, the Scribes and the Pharisees, you will not go to heaven.  Matthew 5:20

Calling someone an idiot or crazy because you are angry with them will send you to hell.  Matthew 5:22. 

Lust is adultery.  Matthew 5: 27-28

If you don’t forgive people who offend you, God will not forgive you.  Matthew 6:15

If you don’t forgive people who offend you, God will send you to hell.  Matthew 18:21-25

You must live a perfect life exactly the way God does.  Matthew 5:48

These teachings were aimed at showing the Jews of His day and anyone who reads them now that it is impossible to get God to accept you unconditionally by obeying the law.  He wanted to prepare them for how much they needed Him to be their Savior.

He was about to bring into existence the New Covenant and was preparing them and everyone else for it.  But the New Covenant did not begin until after Jesus’ death, burial, resurrection and ascension.  See Hebrew 9:15.

Let’s compare what the New Covenant says about God and you as a Christ follower.

God has already forgiven you whether you forgive or not.  Colossians 2:13

God made you perfect in your identity in Christ.  Hebrews 10:14

God made you a saint (holy person) and not a lustful person in Christ.  1 Corinthians 1:2

God made you a patient person because you are complete in Christ.  Colossians 2:10

The Old Covenant was conditional based on man’s imperfect works.  The New Covenant is conditional based on faith in Jesus’ perfect work.

Read the New Testament with clarity today as you understand the New Testament starts in Acts, not Matthew.

Believe it! It's the Gospel.

Live Free In Christ,

Mark Maulding, President and Founder

www.GraceLifeInternational.com All Content Copyright © 2015 Mark Maulding but feel free to pass it on!

Living in Peace in the Present

We have this really cool handout at Grace Life International entitled, Living in Peace.  It is a diagram of a large cross in the center of the page.  The left side of the cross is about our PAST.  We often struggle with bitterness, resentment and regret from our past.  Those feelings can be directed not only at others but towards ourselves and even God.  Because of the cross of Jesus, we can live out of who we are in Christ as forgivers, passing on the forgiveness we have received from God.  I’ve been writing on that truth for the past few weeks and have received some wonderful responses from our readers about how God has brought new freedom to their lives.  Praise God! (If you have missed those or want to see any of my past blogs, visit www.MarkMauding.com.)

The right side of the cross is about our FUTURE.  We often struggle with fear, worry and anxiety as we think about our future.  Have you ever written a fearful story in your mind about how a situation is going to turn out in the future?  I have many times and what I’ve noticed is that God is never involved in that story. That’s the enemy putting those kinds of fearful thoughts into our minds. 

A major way to live in peace about our future is to give up our rights to our future to God.  That is what the right side of the cross shows in this diagram.  In Philippians 2:6, we read about Jesus, Though He was God, He did not think of equality with God as something to cling to. (NLT)   Jesus, being God, had the right to stay in heaven in the future instead of becoming a human being.  However, He gave up that right in order to please His Father.  In the same way, our same Father, asks us to give up our rights, too.

There are those who say we have no rights to give up and there are those who say we do.  It’s probably both.  Jesus had a right to stay in heaven as God.  Paul had a right to marry a Christian wife like Peter did.  Those were legitimate rights, but they gave them up.  There are other times we have “false” rights which are not true.  How about - the right to have perfect children?  - the right to have a perfect spouse?  - the right to get married?  - the right to perfect health?   And more.

Do you want to have peace in the present?  Forgive others, yourself and God (God cannot sin but we can still feel angry with him.)  Then give up your rights for your life to go the way you believe it must for you to be happy.  We say it this way at GLI.  A desire is fine but once we turn it from a desire to an expectation, we start living by law instead of grace. 

If you would like a copy of this handout, please click here https://www.scribd.com/doc/271473630/Living-in-Peace-in-the-Present and download it for free.

Believe it. It’s the Gospel.

Live Free in Christ,

Mark Maulding, President and Founder

www.GraceLifeInternational.com All Content Copyright © 2015 Mark Maulding but feel free to pass it on!

Do You Struggle With Anger?

Do you ever feel angry?  Of course, you do.  Everyone does.  If you say you are not angry because Christians aren't supposed to be angry, let me use some other words for anger:  frustrated, irritated, annoyed, exasperated, and aggravated.  There are of course, stronger expressions of anger as we will see later.

When my kids were younger, there was a card game craze called Pokémon.  My boys were drawn into that craze and loved it.  One day, I discovered that two of them had stolen a few cards from some neighbor kids.  I couldn't believe it!  I felt so angry.  With one swipe of my hands across the counter, I scattered the cards and a bowl of popcorn across the room and told them I couldn't believe they had stolen the cards!  Then I went with them to return them to their friends and to ask for forgiveness.

Were my actions a demonstration of righteous anger like Jesus when he turned over the money changers tables in the temple?   (John 2:13-16)  Or, were they the fruit of my flesh, which just "went off?" 

Anger is a normal human emotion which is sometimes sinful and sometimes not.  Ephesians 4:26a says, Be angry and yet do not sin. Have you ever read some of the Psalms when the writer was expressing to God how angry he felt?  In Psalms 10:16-17, David prays, Break the arms of these wicked, evil people!   Go after them until the last one is destroyed.   The Lord is king forever and ever!   The godless nations will vanish from the land.  This wasn't sinful anger.  He was simply telling the Lord how he felt, a great example for all of us.

There is also sinful anger which is often destructive in families and at work.  This anger has many faces, according to Ephesians 4:31. Let all bitterness and indignation and wrath (passion, rage, bad temper) and resentment (anger, animosity) and quarreling (brawling, clamor, contention) and slander (evil-speaking, abusive or blasphemous language) be banished from you, with all malice (spite, ill will, or baseness of any kind). AMP

What is God's solution for our sinful anger?  We need to admit to ourselves and mostly to God that we have this problem and stop justifying it.  We need to remember that in Christ, we are not angry people but instead, already patient and kind.   We need to tell Jesus how much we need Him to live through us in place of the anger.  To remove barriers preventing Him from living through us, we need to deal with our past and our future.  Let me explain.

To deal with our past, God has given us the grace to forgive those who have offended us.  To deal with our future, God gives us the grace to relinquish our rights and expectations in every area of our lives to Him (more on that next week). 

We may also need to ask forgiveness from the people we have hurt with our anger. I've had to do that with my wife, as most men do who are living out of their true identity in Christ.  I need to mention one more thing. 

We may also need to go talk through an issue with someone who has offended us according to Matthew 18:15-17.

If you have an issue with anger and need help, call us at 704-522-9026. We provide counseling in Charlotte, Albemarle, Asheville and anywhere by Skype.

  
Believe it! It's the Gospel.

Live Free In Christ,

Mark Maulding, President and Founder

www.GraceLifeInternational.com All Content Copyright © 2015 Mark Maulding but feel free to pass it on!