One of the most quoted Scriptures among Christ followers who
are experiencing difficulty is Romans 8:28 And
we know that God causes all things to work together for good to those who love God,
to those who are called according to His purpose. It gives us great comfort to realize that
God is orchestrating all of the circumstances in our lives for our good.
Let me give you a little advice, though. When one of your friends is going through
challenging times, don’t quote Romans 8:28 to them, especially when they first share
with you. They may give you a knuckle
sandwich because what they need in that moment is to be listened to with compassion
and understanding. For example, that’s
not what the families of the San Bernardino shooting need to hear right
now. We need to weep with those who weep
and rejoice with those who rejoice. There
may be a later time to share this verse as you are led by the Holy Spirit.
What is this “good” this verse speaks of? Sometimes, it’s the blessing of good
circumstances. For example, once when
Ellen and I were on a date at a movie, my phone was blowing up with calls from
one of my sons. I finally stepped out
asking what was going on. He calmly
informed me that he had put a pan of oil on the stove and forgotten about it
when he got engrossed in a sports show upstairs. His younger brother soon asked him, “Why is
smoke coming up the stairs?” The oil had
caught on fire and the cabinets above were burning. Thankfully, they got it out quickly with a
fire extinguisher. (Buy a fire
extinguisher if you are currently raising teens!) My wife had been wanting to repaint the
bottom portion of our house. God granted
her desire when the insurance paid someone to paint it for her after all of the
smoke damage. Romans 8:28! Right?
A few years later, the school system shocked us when they
disagreed that our daughter with Downs should continue in regular classes as
she had the first seven years of school.
We ended up in a very stressful, expensive legal battle. We believed strongly that we would win in
court because of federal disability laws.
We had what seemed to be strong confirmations from the Lord from reliable
sources. Yet in the end, we lost all
three times. It wiped out our meager
college savings for our children. And
our daughter had to be home schooled.
In addition, our home church refused to allow her to attend
the teen girls’ small group in our neighborhood, regardless of how much we
appealed to them. In the end, Bekah used
to cry about not being able to attend school with her friends. And, she cried because the church leadership
refused to allow her to attend the girls’ small group. She would have done fine in both.
Though we are not bitter and have forgiven all, 10 years
later, I don’t see Romans 8:28 for her.
In fact, I see what appears to be the opposite. She lost a lot of her ability to verbally
communicate, write, have friends, mature socially and grow in her love for
Jesus. Yet, I want to proclaim loudly
that Romans 8:28 is still true! It’s not
dependent on whether we see it. In fact,
in verse 29, He tells us that the most important “good’ God does is to conform
us to His image. For those whom He foreknew, He also predestined to become conformed to
the image of His Son, so that He would be the firstborn among many brethren. Jesus has used that story to help many trust
that Romans 8:28 is true for them when they see it and when they don’t. That’s a form of being conformed to His image
Believe it! It's the Gospel.
Live Free In Christ,
Mark Maulding, President and Founder
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